
I've read nothing today about the Roethlisberger case except how his despicable actions should lead to sanctions by at least the Steelers if not the league. Going as far as comparing him to Michael Vick and his inhumane acts and Pacman Jones littany of issues - and I'm growing tired of it.
This isn't about Ben - it's about being the accused, acquitted by the legal system, but being found guilty by the public.
Look, the detectives, lawyers, and DA involved in the case know very little for certain outside of the fact that she was in the bar at the same time as Ben. We, the public, know even less.
How can you possibly pass judgement on someone that a) you don't know personally and b) don't have any of the facts of the case.
To date, this is what we
know:
1. A 20 year old girl was bar hopping with her college sorority sisters and drinking illegally.
2. Said girl was in the same bar as Roethlisberger approaching closing time.
3. Said girl had public interaction with Ben at some point throughout the night.
4. Said girl, highly and illegally intoxicated is escorted to a policemen by her sorority sisters and commences to tell him that she was not raped.
5. Said girl goes to the hospital for a rape kit
6. The evidence shows genital bruising and a surface laceration - but did not suggest rape.
That's it. Period. Nothing else is fact. Nothing else can be proven. So what is everybody basing the assertion of despicable acts?
Because Ben was in a college bar with girls and buying them drinks? Firstly, last time I checked there isn't a whole lot to do around that place, but I could be wrong. Still doesn't seem that terrible to me. Secondly, like I've said before, it's not his job to ID. Furthermore, you know how easy it is for girls to look
much older than they actually are. I can give him a pass on this because she probably looked closer to 25 (at least 21 because she was allowed in to drink, right?).
Because Ben went into the bathroom with her? Firstly, no video evidence. It wasn't even exposed as to how many eye witnesses there were that saw them in there
together.
Because it looked like she had sex? A) Ben said there was no intercourse (he could be lying, so could she). More importantly there was no evidence that Ben had any sort of sexual relations with her. She was out with her sorority sisters all night drinking illegally (and likely not spending much of their own money - ok, that was a cheap shot). She could have very easily had sex with
anyone before meeting up with Ben. Hell, she could've tripped and fallen in her inebriation and hurt herself (not far fetched, I've seen it).
Do I know that any of those things happened? Nope, and I'm happy to admit it. So what's my view on the whole thing? Status quo, like before the allegation. I know nothing more now about the situation than I did before it occurred. I have no choice but to with the facts as we know them and those facts point to no wrongdoing and absolutely no need for this witch hunt...
Don't see it that way? Well, if you have a son, put him in Roethlisberger's predicament and see if you change your mind. Maybe if we all hopped of our high horses sometimes and let go of our unfounded outrage we could be more sound in our judgement.
UPDATE: Quote from DA Bright regarding Ben's buying of alcohol for an underage person:
He said of Roethlisberger: "The only way that we could prove the case (providing alcohol to a person under 21) against him, and I've looked at this myself, quite candidly is just through her testimony."
Apparently we now know even less...